An 83-year-old man is admitted to the hospital with fever, severe dyspnea, and hypoxemia due to pneumonia. He is lethargic, disoriented, and lacks capacity to make decisions. Medical history is significant for chronic bronchitis. Respiratory failure and need for mechanical ventilation are imminent. There is no advance directive. Two surviving adult children are struggling with making decisions about his care, especially regarding mechanical ventilation.

Which of the following is the most appropriate course of action to facilitate a decision on this patient's care?